Saturday, 14 April 2018

A Letter To My Malaysian Wife !!! (12th April-2018)

Dear Wify,

After all the 'Yes's and 'No's', after all the quarrels and matured decisions taken between us, after undergoing the immense, gruelling ordeal of doing the VISA formalities all alone by yourself and after taking the bravest decision of your life...to leave a piece of your heart....our Don-Sweetheart Miss.Kickuswamy in India with us and going to an unknown country definitely deserves a lot of applause and a grand salute honey.

From 'What will happen next?' to 'Taking pics at Twin Towers'. This positive change is simply pleasant. It's because of you that I got a chance to visit Chatrapati Shivaji International Airport. अपनी पहुंच शायद वहीं तक है ;) And not to forget the magical moment of mine of seeing Zakir Khan after you checked-in.
We could have spent some more hours together at the airport but the military man wanted us to enjoy our separate moments with a 'Chilled Brain' :D

How soon have we matured as the time passed gradually. Our Pillu is also developing this trait of ours pretty soon as she is unaware of this sudden distance between you and her. Thanks to Kaka-Kaku-Dhiru trio without whom we would have never been able to take such a huge decision. Success has finally embraced you in a grand way but it has come at a big cost too. Distance from our Garguli for couple of months. I know only you can understand that pain as your attachment with her being her mom is inseperable. I have got beaten up from Tillu on several occasions due to this sheer attachment and love between you and her when I tried to replace you temporarily in front of her :) 

After your 1st video call, I clearly noticed your face getting saddened when you saw our Kickz. ते येडं आहे कारण तुला भाव देत नव्हती परवा :) 

You be rest assured that we all are here to take her good care and get wounded by her nails and bites of course ;) I do remember all the instructions which you gave me numerous times before leaving to Malaysia. Today itself I have knocked few of those tasks as already reported to you earlier. Kicku is as happy as ever until her 'Roaming Mode' is activated. I am also happy to re-enter into my bachelorhood which I celebrated immediately on the next day of your departure by roaming in Dadar and shopping for our Dhampi. Now I can keep the house the way I wanted...as per my rules ;) 

Very few people know about this achievement of yours as you never like to show-off things which I noticed right in our 1st meeting (by the way, our 4th 'Meeting Anniversary' is due by couple of days ok!!) and always loved this aspect of your nature. After you went, I slowly realized that you had taken the utmost care of what all things I needed and kept it where I always wanted them. Without any hype. You alone slogged for all the VISA related activities, for applying passport of our Tilluz and Kaku, you became unwell due to this but never gave up at any point of time. Now I am loving the pics which you are sharing. Those are fruits of all the efforts which you put in here in India for going there. Slowly everybody will come to know about this achievement of yours. Most of them will feel that 'You are minting money over there' or 'How come she got a chance so soon to fly to Malaysia?'. You simply ignore all such retards.They will never know the potential of getting selected in the interview from 500 odd people, the courage needed in leaving your 17 months kid (& one 34 yrs too) behind in India along with a huge friend circle and closed relatives, leaving behind F.C.Road, MH-14 stalls, Westend Mall and all other known nook and corners of Pune...ये सबके बसकी बात नहीं !!
I just hope you don't find a more handsome dude than me over there :)

The future ride may not be as smooth as we thought but by now, you have developed that art to face extreme challenges and excel in those difficult situations. 
Enjoy your bachelorhood too, roam as much as you can, do shopping, take amazing pictures as you always do, try any hairstyle of your choice and wear what you like......and yessss.....eat all the consumables of those 2 extra Kgs which overburdened your luggage. Transfer those 2 Kgs to yourself !! You may try new dishes (eating & making) so that at least I can get some benefit out of your Malaysian trip once you are back from there. 

From your journey between getting selected to go to Malaysia till you actually left the Mumbai Airport, I may have appeared a villain many times to you (that's what people usually perceive me). However trust me, I always wanted to support this decision of yours by doing the best bit of what I could do for you. May be I couldn't prove that till you were here but surely now onwards, you will be proud of me and say this to me after returning India "आप पती तो ठीक ठाक हो पर पापा बढिया बन गये हो'!! और एक बात, your Kicku will never forget you even if you are far from her for couple of months. Mark my words, she will prove this when you will return to India.

Once again, heartiest congratulations to you for becoming the 1st person to go abroad from my as well as your family :) :)

और हाँ, if you miss fighting with me then please feel free to reach out to me via Google Duo/WhatsApp. आपकी वो ख्वाहिश भी पूरी कर देंगे ;)

आपका बॅचलर पतिदेव,
बाबा सुरदेव!!



1 comment:

  1. It's very brave and courageous decision..! I am happy you both are supporting each other.. Touchwood.. And heartiest congrats ��

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